WARNING: THIS IS A RANT! If you think you may be offended, leave now!
I do the huge majority of Max’s night feeds in our house. If I’m lucky I can usually persuade J to do one at the weekend. Now normally I don’t mind this - after all he’s going out 5 days a week doing a job he really isn’t that keen on (although it is a desk job so not physically tiring in the slightest) to bring in the money etc, he’s up earlier to get to work, and *at the moment* the boys seem to have taken to sleeping til about 9am which is amazing, although I doubt it’ll last.
Thing is… the very IDEA that he do the night feeds on the friday AND the saturday night and apparently I’m being unfair. I don’t think that’s right as he is getting 6 nights a week of proper un-interrupted sleep (i have to thump him awake when he does do the night feed cause he sleeps thru the crying) while I’m living off about 4-5 hours of very broken sleep that whole time and having to run around after a toddler each day, keep up with the housework, and tidy up after said toddler, baby and husband. and to top it all when he actually does the night feed he needs a lie in and a nap to ‘catch up’. see where I’m going with this??
do you think i should stick to my guns and ask him to do the fri and sat night feeds on a regular basis? or am I being unfair? please don’t be too mean in your comment if ya think I’m being unfair or I’ll cry! 
the pic is a lil blurry but I had hungry people to feed!
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